1 00:00:05,420 --> 00:00:06,680 You think you know your neighbor? 2 00:00:07,040 --> 00:00:08,039 Think again. 3 00:00:08,160 --> 00:00:13,060 All over the world, normal, everyday couples are taking a bold step in their 4 00:00:13,060 --> 00:00:14,060 relationship. 5 00:00:14,800 --> 00:00:16,059 They're swingers. 6 00:00:17,580 --> 00:00:21,860 And there's no denying they're getting more than their share of incredible sex. 7 00:00:23,220 --> 00:00:25,240 But is the lifestyle right for everyone? 8 00:00:26,600 --> 00:00:31,240 I'm sexologist Jessica O 'Reilly, and I'm here to welcome a brand new couple 9 00:00:31,240 --> 00:00:32,380 into the lifestyle. 10 00:00:33,140 --> 00:00:34,260 It's a pretty beard. 11 00:00:34,620 --> 00:00:35,620 Always a pretty beard. 12 00:00:35,700 --> 00:00:36,820 She's not messing it up. 13 00:00:37,020 --> 00:00:38,020 My name is Jess. 14 00:00:38,420 --> 00:00:39,420 And I'm John. 15 00:00:39,440 --> 00:00:41,320 And we've been together for four years now. 16 00:00:42,200 --> 00:00:46,820 It's actually kind of a funny story how we met. My roommate's little sister and 17 00:00:46,820 --> 00:00:48,340 I were together at the time. 18 00:00:49,080 --> 00:00:50,700 I was best friends with her. 19 00:00:50,980 --> 00:00:56,920 We met through her at a party. One thing led to another, and we started dating. 20 00:00:58,080 --> 00:00:59,080 How did it look? 21 00:00:59,660 --> 00:01:02,500 Fantastic. Our sex life is great right now. 22 00:01:02,740 --> 00:01:04,080 I think we have sex time. 23 00:01:04,560 --> 00:01:05,560 Couple nights a week? 24 00:01:05,820 --> 00:01:07,940 Your boots are more difficult than my corsets. 25 00:01:08,660 --> 00:01:14,880 We love cosplay, steampunk, and dressing up as superheroes, that sort of thing. 26 00:01:15,280 --> 00:01:17,780 The only problem is finding a superhero with a beard. 27 00:01:18,940 --> 00:01:20,640 You should just make your own superhero. 28 00:01:20,920 --> 00:01:21,920 I am a superhero. 29 00:01:23,940 --> 00:01:25,980 I would say we're ready to take it to the next level. 30 00:01:26,200 --> 00:01:29,540 Cosplay helped spice it up, but I think we're ready to make it a little bit 31 00:01:29,540 --> 00:01:30,540 spicier. 32 00:01:31,980 --> 00:01:34,120 Will they be glad they dove in headfirst? 33 00:01:38,340 --> 00:01:41,120 Or will they wish they had never left home? 34 00:01:41,540 --> 00:01:42,540 Hang on tight. 35 00:01:42,860 --> 00:01:44,460 It's time to swing. 36 00:01:58,700 --> 00:02:02,030 Your breath looks good today. Thanks. you. You look awesome today. 37 00:02:02,250 --> 00:02:03,250 Thank you. 38 00:02:03,810 --> 00:02:08,610 I think Victoria's attire is extremely sexy. I mean... Especially when you wear 39 00:02:08,610 --> 00:02:10,110 it. Of course it's sexy. 40 00:02:10,550 --> 00:02:11,550 Hey! 41 00:02:12,170 --> 00:02:14,870 Jess and I both have a bit of a shy personality. 42 00:02:15,110 --> 00:02:18,010 That's something we hope to work on here in the Fling House. We want to be able 43 00:02:18,010 --> 00:02:21,990 to come out of our shells a bit and be able to be a little bit more 44 00:02:22,550 --> 00:02:26,490 I think I'm definitely more excited than nervous. How about you? I think I'm 45 00:02:26,490 --> 00:02:29,410 definitely more excited than nervous. I'm definitely interested in... 46 00:02:29,690 --> 00:02:33,810 really learning how to flirt and play with girls. I'm really interested in you 47 00:02:33,810 --> 00:02:35,410 learning that, too. I'm sure you are. 48 00:02:35,670 --> 00:02:39,110 What guy isn't? We're hoping for a full flop, and we're hoping that Jess is 49 00:02:39,110 --> 00:02:43,350 going to get a chance to play with women to see if she really does enjoy it. 50 00:02:43,550 --> 00:02:46,250 I think it's going to be a really good experience for us. I mean, we're going 51 00:02:46,250 --> 00:02:49,830 learn a lot. I think it's definitely going to help us with our communication. 52 00:02:49,830 --> 00:02:53,430 mean, we already talk a lot, and we already communicate pretty well, but... 53 00:02:53,430 --> 00:02:54,770 mean, there's always room for improvement. 54 00:02:55,130 --> 00:02:56,850 Exactly. I think this will help with that. 55 00:02:57,800 --> 00:03:01,340 What we're looking to get out of swinging is mostly we just want to meet 56 00:03:01,340 --> 00:03:05,820 people who are like -minded, who are pretty much open for anything. 57 00:03:14,620 --> 00:03:18,920 Wow, welcome to the swing house. Thank you. I'm Jessica O 'Reilly. Jess. Nice 58 00:03:18,920 --> 00:03:19,799 meet you, Jess. 59 00:03:19,800 --> 00:03:22,660 John, nice to meet you. Lovely to have you both here. You're looking fabulous. 60 00:03:23,040 --> 00:03:26,120 Thank you. I know you're going to make quite the impression, but before you 61 00:03:26,120 --> 00:03:29,060 all the other couples, we have one important piece of business to take care 62 00:03:29,080 --> 00:03:30,820 okay? Okay. All right. After you. 63 00:03:31,120 --> 00:03:32,120 Thank you. 64 00:03:38,380 --> 00:03:43,720 Well, the lifestyle has changed me in many ways, but the most important way, I 65 00:03:43,720 --> 00:03:47,060 feel, is that it's made me more confident and comfortable with myself. 66 00:03:47,790 --> 00:03:53,990 I personally think that being too shy is not good, but being able to swing and 67 00:03:53,990 --> 00:03:57,130 be comfortable and make that connection with people, you have to be able to 68 00:03:57,130 --> 00:04:01,630 communicate on some level. But if you're not really speaking up, there's just 69 00:04:01,630 --> 00:04:06,870 leaving a lot of room for disaster, for miscommunication. If you are shy, not to 70 00:04:06,870 --> 00:04:10,990 say that you can't get into this and get over it, but you have to work on it. 71 00:04:11,030 --> 00:04:12,410 You have to start speaking up. 72 00:04:15,630 --> 00:04:18,329 So what brought you here? What made you decide to come to the Swing House? 73 00:04:18,829 --> 00:04:23,350 We're always up to try new things. I mean, we're always looking for the next 74 00:04:23,350 --> 00:04:26,990 adventure. And for us, this is an adventure into our relationship and 75 00:04:26,990 --> 00:04:29,870 experiencing just more about the lifestyle. 76 00:04:30,090 --> 00:04:31,330 What are you excited for? 77 00:04:31,570 --> 00:04:36,710 I think threesomes and definitely her. More experience with girls. I'm so 78 00:04:36,710 --> 00:04:42,830 behind on how to flirt with girls. I almost come off as... 79 00:04:43,310 --> 00:04:45,110 a freshman in high school. It's kind of adorable. 80 00:04:45,810 --> 00:04:48,990 All right, so you want to learn how to flirt with girls. Are you nervous about 81 00:04:48,990 --> 00:04:53,510 the actual performance with girls? I am, but I think they have a lot of good 82 00:04:53,510 --> 00:04:57,010 knowledge that I could learn on just becoming more comfortable with my own 83 00:04:57,010 --> 00:04:59,590 sexuality. What kind of ladies are you attracted to? 84 00:05:00,190 --> 00:05:04,870 Girls like to have fun. And you said threesomes, not one threesome. So what 85 00:05:04,870 --> 00:05:05,870 you mean by threesomes? 86 00:05:06,060 --> 00:05:09,500 We would love it if we could both be in separate threesomes at the same time in 87 00:05:09,500 --> 00:05:13,900 the same room. Yeah. Okay. That way we're both able to have as much fun as 88 00:05:13,900 --> 00:05:18,620 possible with each other, but still doing something separate but together, 89 00:05:18,620 --> 00:05:21,600 that makes sense. That makes sense. So you want a full swap plus one. 90 00:05:22,020 --> 00:05:25,800 Right. Okay. Tell me what you want your threesome to look like. I would love it 91 00:05:25,800 --> 00:05:26,800 to be with two women. 92 00:05:29,200 --> 00:05:33,140 Just as much fun as can be had with that. And so for your threesome, because 93 00:05:33,140 --> 00:05:36,120 you're into women and guys, how would you like your threesome to play out? I 94 00:05:36,120 --> 00:05:41,000 mean, I could do a threesome with two guys, two girls, or a girl and a guy. 95 00:05:41,000 --> 00:05:43,340 pretty much open to any combination of those. 96 00:05:43,930 --> 00:05:47,610 So I'm picturing two threesomes side by side. What if only one of you is able to 97 00:05:47,610 --> 00:05:50,290 find a threesome? Perhaps you have chemistry with two people and you're not 98 00:05:50,290 --> 00:05:52,770 feeling it. Are you comfortable with just going ahead with that? 99 00:05:53,030 --> 00:05:56,870 Absolutely. We've actually never had a jealousy issue. We've been together for 100 00:05:56,870 --> 00:05:57,709 four years. 101 00:05:57,710 --> 00:05:59,470 We've never had an argument even once. 102 00:05:59,690 --> 00:06:01,610 You've never had an argument? Not once. 103 00:06:01,990 --> 00:06:03,170 Do you agree on everything? 104 00:06:03,780 --> 00:06:08,440 No, but we bring up our argument to the other person and come to an agreement. 105 00:06:08,900 --> 00:06:11,900 Okay, and have you talked about what your rules are, your limitations, your 106 00:06:11,900 --> 00:06:13,460 boundaries, anything you don't want to do? 107 00:06:13,960 --> 00:06:18,840 She does not do anything anal, and condoms are a must for us. 108 00:06:19,040 --> 00:06:20,400 Okay. Anything else? 109 00:06:20,620 --> 00:06:21,620 You'll do anything? 110 00:06:21,880 --> 00:06:23,460 Pretty much, with women. 111 00:06:23,840 --> 00:06:27,560 With women, okay. No choking. I don't like the choking. 112 00:06:27,840 --> 00:06:30,400 Okay, so you don't like it too bad. No. Fair enough. 113 00:06:30,880 --> 00:06:34,160 So do you have any fears coming into this? You must be a little bit nervous. 114 00:06:34,420 --> 00:06:38,200 I think we're a little bit nervous that we'll get along with the other couples 115 00:06:38,200 --> 00:06:42,000 and that they won't see the outfits and immediately go, who are these weirdos? 116 00:06:42,940 --> 00:06:46,500 And how about you, Jess? Do you have any nerves or hesitations coming in? 117 00:06:46,720 --> 00:06:50,040 I think my nerves and everything about the same as his, just, you know, making 118 00:06:50,040 --> 00:06:51,260 sure we get along with everyone. 119 00:06:51,720 --> 00:06:57,240 I mean, we're here to experience something and have fun and learn, and 120 00:06:57,240 --> 00:06:58,440 what I really just hope we do. 121 00:06:59,120 --> 00:07:02,220 All right, well, I have here a contract that helps to outline the rules of the 122 00:07:02,220 --> 00:07:03,039 swing house. 123 00:07:03,040 --> 00:07:05,900 I'm going to ask you to read through the contract, and if you're feeling 124 00:07:05,900 --> 00:07:08,420 comfortable, you can sign at the bottom. Okay. Sounds great. Okay. 125 00:07:09,800 --> 00:07:13,900 We have agreed to embark on a sexual adventure over the next two days during 126 00:07:13,900 --> 00:07:18,480 which all the normal rules of monogamous relationships will temporarily be set 127 00:07:18,480 --> 00:07:22,480 aside. I'm really glad me and John had that opportunity to talk to Jessica. 128 00:07:22,720 --> 00:07:27,320 And just being able to verbalize what's going to happen, what the boundaries 129 00:07:27,320 --> 00:07:28,900 are. What's expected? 130 00:07:30,300 --> 00:07:32,160 Perfect. All right, well, I'll hold on to this. 131 00:07:32,420 --> 00:07:33,840 Okay. Are you feeling excited? 132 00:07:34,160 --> 00:07:37,500 Yes. Okay, you can go check out your room, and then you're going to meet the 133 00:07:37,500 --> 00:07:40,180 other couples, and I wish you an amazing day. I'll see you later tonight. All 134 00:07:40,180 --> 00:07:41,180 right. 135 00:07:44,660 --> 00:07:45,660 Oh, wow. 136 00:07:46,440 --> 00:07:50,160 This looks awesome. Oh, my gosh. They're pretty. 137 00:07:50,720 --> 00:07:51,720 Wow. 138 00:07:52,160 --> 00:07:53,160 Ooh. 139 00:07:53,580 --> 00:07:55,360 We have a little gift box. 140 00:07:55,940 --> 00:07:56,940 Oh. 141 00:07:57,360 --> 00:07:58,360 Awesome stuff. 142 00:07:58,600 --> 00:07:59,900 That's cool. Yeah. 143 00:08:00,400 --> 00:08:01,720 This bed is amazing. 144 00:08:02,360 --> 00:08:06,240 After spending most of the morning talking about sex, me and John were 145 00:08:06,240 --> 00:08:07,240 kind of hot. 146 00:08:27,180 --> 00:08:32,000 Jeff and I generally don't really role play, but just wearing the costumes is 147 00:08:32,000 --> 00:08:34,320 exciting and fun, and it kind of puts you in the mood a little bit. 148 00:09:01,800 --> 00:09:02,800 Very nice. 149 00:09:07,080 --> 00:09:08,780 Jeff is just having a blast. 150 00:09:09,040 --> 00:09:14,260 She's writhing around and she's smiling and she looks like she's getting close. 151 00:09:14,920 --> 00:09:17,680 That definitely put us more in the mood for what was to come. 152 00:09:26,680 --> 00:09:28,980 So I have my own special way of... 153 00:09:29,510 --> 00:09:31,650 hitting on people. I call it spark away. 154 00:09:32,330 --> 00:09:38,390 I'd like to do a lot of non -verbal gestures like looking in the eyes, 155 00:09:38,570 --> 00:09:42,690 biting my finger, you know. Look in your hair. Look in your hair. 156 00:09:43,230 --> 00:09:49,110 Subtle things that are showing you that I'm interested without bluntly going out 157 00:09:49,110 --> 00:09:50,990 and saying, I want to fuck you right now. 158 00:09:51,250 --> 00:09:53,610 Yeah. Yeah. She does. The spark is coming. 159 00:09:57,540 --> 00:10:02,160 She uses the finger a lot. The finger in the lip or in the mouth thing, like, a 160 00:10:02,160 --> 00:10:05,180 lot. I look stupid doing it, but you know what you're doing. 161 00:10:05,560 --> 00:10:06,660 The sparkle way. 162 00:10:08,020 --> 00:10:11,220 You ever been out somewhere and somebody just offers to have sex with you in the 163 00:10:11,220 --> 00:10:14,360 bathroom? Where's the absolute craziest place anybody's had sex? 164 00:10:14,740 --> 00:10:20,540 Ferris wheel, I guess, would be our... Keep it down, Junior! I'm busy! 165 00:10:21,160 --> 00:10:24,300 You can't join the Mile High Club anymore. It's, like, virtually 166 00:10:25,240 --> 00:10:26,980 But I did give him a hand job. 167 00:10:27,340 --> 00:10:28,179 On the airplane. 168 00:10:28,180 --> 00:10:30,800 On the airplane with somebody sitting right beside me. 169 00:10:31,100 --> 00:10:32,100 Wow. 170 00:10:32,220 --> 00:10:36,660 I think it's the excitement of getting caught maybe. Yeah. You're doing 171 00:10:36,660 --> 00:10:39,980 something and nobody else knows what you're doing. Now that you mention it, 172 00:10:39,980 --> 00:10:42,540 we're going car shopping. I'm taking a car for a test drive and we're going to 173 00:10:42,540 --> 00:10:43,419 bang in a car. 174 00:10:43,420 --> 00:10:46,220 I like it. Make sure it's got leather seats, dude. Cruise control. 175 00:10:48,100 --> 00:10:49,039 See you guys. 176 00:10:49,040 --> 00:10:50,040 Hey. 177 00:10:50,700 --> 00:10:51,700 Hey. 178 00:10:52,320 --> 00:10:54,320 John. Chad. Nice to meet you. Hi. 179 00:10:54,570 --> 00:10:55,730 I'm Jess. Nice to meet you. 180 00:10:55,970 --> 00:10:59,890 I'm Jesse. We decided to wear the steampunk outfits because we wanted to 181 00:10:59,890 --> 00:11:03,950 ahead and get it out there that we're nerds. We're geeks. We go to 182 00:11:04,510 --> 00:11:07,230 We do this. We don't want it to be a surprise for them later. 183 00:11:07,690 --> 00:11:11,670 We want them to see right off the bat what our personalities are like and what 184 00:11:11,670 --> 00:11:12,870 it is that we do for fun. 185 00:11:13,210 --> 00:11:16,010 I love the steampunkies. Thank you. I love it. 186 00:11:16,410 --> 00:11:19,510 Epic beers, man. Thank you. Hi, Jess. Hi. 187 00:11:20,940 --> 00:11:27,380 The couples instantly, upon seeing us, extremely friendly, just welcomed us 188 00:11:27,380 --> 00:11:28,380 open arms. 189 00:11:33,520 --> 00:11:37,800 I'm a little nervous of how the couples are going to perceive our outfits. 190 00:11:38,200 --> 00:11:42,580 It's not every day you see someone walking around in full -on Victorian 191 00:11:43,070 --> 00:11:45,350 What are the costumes representative of? 192 00:11:45,930 --> 00:11:50,270 Steampunk. Victorian era, the late 1800s. You got to get out more. You 193 00:11:50,270 --> 00:11:51,990 had a steampunk party in New York? No. 194 00:11:52,650 --> 00:11:56,790 I don't know. They're awesome. Let me know. What is it? 195 00:11:57,010 --> 00:11:59,450 Steampunk is basically an alternate history. 196 00:11:59,750 --> 00:12:04,730 I don't usually wear those type of outfits, but whatever floats their boat, 197 00:12:04,730 --> 00:12:08,090 willing to work with them. So I'm thinking it's kind of hot. We like to 198 00:12:08,090 --> 00:12:10,950 it as science fiction meets Victorian. 199 00:12:11,370 --> 00:12:12,370 Yes. 200 00:12:12,590 --> 00:12:13,590 Futuristic path. 201 00:12:13,690 --> 00:12:17,170 That's exactly what it is. They all looked a little surprised at the 202 00:12:17,170 --> 00:12:21,190 outfits, but they absolutely loved them. They were very welcoming. They were 203 00:12:21,190 --> 00:12:25,870 asking lots of questions about steampunk. It was just a huge weight off 204 00:12:25,870 --> 00:12:28,830 shoulders. So what made you guys decide to come to the swing house? 205 00:12:29,050 --> 00:12:33,770 We've had a few friends who are in the lifestyle, and they've been like, you 206 00:12:33,770 --> 00:12:35,330 guys need to check it out. It's a lot of fun. 207 00:12:35,650 --> 00:12:37,210 So what is your fantasy while you're here? 208 00:12:37,470 --> 00:12:39,870 I definitely want to experience girls. 209 00:12:40,960 --> 00:12:46,100 I'm attracted to girls, and I haven't had the opportunity to play around with 210 00:12:46,100 --> 00:12:49,120 them. There's a lot of girls here that'll play. I see. 211 00:12:49,460 --> 00:12:50,460 I see. 212 00:12:50,480 --> 00:12:55,540 I think we also, we both want to try a threesome. It's something neither of us 213 00:12:55,540 --> 00:13:02,020 have done, and we're kind of looking for each of us having our own just new 214 00:13:02,020 --> 00:13:05,740 experience for us. Have you had any experiences in the lifestyle at all? Not 215 00:13:05,740 --> 00:13:06,860 really, no. Any parties? 216 00:13:07,590 --> 00:13:08,790 No, not really. Okay. 217 00:13:09,630 --> 00:13:12,630 Do you want someone aggressive towards you, or do you guys want to be 218 00:13:12,630 --> 00:13:14,310 aggressive? How do you guys want to work that? 219 00:13:14,610 --> 00:13:19,410 We're both usually pretty shy, so it's usually a lot easier if somebody kind 220 00:13:19,410 --> 00:13:20,810 of... Yeah, well, you're in the right place. 221 00:13:22,050 --> 00:13:23,830 What about rules? What do we have rule -wise? 222 00:13:25,710 --> 00:13:26,710 What's your rules, buddy? 223 00:13:27,830 --> 00:13:29,050 Pretty much just condoms. 224 00:13:31,230 --> 00:13:34,430 Very good, very good. That's a start. That's a good start. 225 00:13:34,680 --> 00:13:38,000 Talking about sex isn't something that's too foreign to us. It's something that 226 00:13:38,000 --> 00:13:43,040 happens a lot at conventions and in the nerd community in general. There's no 227 00:13:43,040 --> 00:13:46,060 better place than here to start because there's no pressure here. 228 00:13:46,340 --> 00:13:48,680 Nobody's going to make you do anything you don't want to do. 229 00:13:49,040 --> 00:13:50,040 No expectations. 230 00:13:50,200 --> 00:13:53,840 There's no expectations. We started in your shoes three years ago. And we were 231 00:13:53,840 --> 00:13:54,840 here last year. 232 00:13:55,080 --> 00:13:58,400 Exactly. We know where you're sitting at. Yeah, everybody gets you. Gotcha. 233 00:13:58,700 --> 00:14:00,980 We make fantasies happen in this house. Don't you worry. 234 00:14:03,530 --> 00:14:06,730 Now's a great time for a game so you guys can get to know us a little better. 235 00:14:06,930 --> 00:14:08,750 Okay. And this game you'll like. 236 00:14:09,110 --> 00:14:10,690 It's called Never Have I. 237 00:14:10,910 --> 00:14:14,410 And so I'm going to tell you something that I never have done, and then if 238 00:14:14,410 --> 00:14:16,910 you've done it, you need to take off an article of clothing. 239 00:14:17,130 --> 00:14:21,310 If nobody has done it, then I will take off an article of clothing. You ready? 240 00:14:21,650 --> 00:14:22,650 Yes. Okay. 241 00:14:22,670 --> 00:14:24,390 Let's do it. You'll like this one. 242 00:14:25,190 --> 00:14:28,870 Never have I had sex with just my socks on. 243 00:14:37,500 --> 00:14:44,040 I kind of feel like me and John have a disadvantage, 244 00:14:44,300 --> 00:14:45,300 especially John. 245 00:14:45,720 --> 00:14:48,320 Victorian clothing, there's a lot of layers involved. 246 00:14:49,240 --> 00:14:50,400 Oh, that was awesome. 247 00:14:50,820 --> 00:14:52,680 All right, you're next. 248 00:14:52,880 --> 00:14:59,000 Okay, well, never have I... I'm already open. 249 00:14:59,900 --> 00:15:03,690 Never have... I used a strap -on with a girl. 250 00:15:04,330 --> 00:15:04,810 I 251 00:15:04,810 --> 00:15:12,770 don't 252 00:15:12,770 --> 00:15:13,770 think anyone's objecting. 253 00:15:14,350 --> 00:15:17,090 I'm kind of excited to see the other couples naked. 254 00:15:17,330 --> 00:15:20,570 I think this game is a really good idea because it's really going to help break 255 00:15:20,570 --> 00:15:23,150 the ice as far as getting comfortable with everyone. 256 00:15:24,450 --> 00:15:25,950 Never have I licked balls. 257 00:15:45,070 --> 00:15:47,310 Never have I ever tried queens. 258 00:15:52,770 --> 00:15:56,990 That's not going to work next year. 259 00:15:57,270 --> 00:16:00,990 As everyone's getting naked, I look over and I see Sparkle, and she has amazing 260 00:16:00,990 --> 00:16:05,010 breath. She has a great personality to go with her great body. 261 00:16:05,370 --> 00:16:07,830 Everyone is just absolutely gorgeous. 262 00:16:10,930 --> 00:16:14,230 Never have I ever been with a girl. 263 00:16:17,699 --> 00:16:19,280 A few people are already naked. 264 00:16:19,660 --> 00:16:23,040 They have nothing else to lose at this point, so sparkle up the ante. 265 00:16:23,360 --> 00:16:28,000 Okay, since you have no more clothes to take off, you have to kiss somebody. 266 00:16:28,940 --> 00:16:29,940 Her picking. 267 00:16:31,540 --> 00:16:33,220 She did ask a question. 268 00:16:34,500 --> 00:16:35,500 She's like, mwah. 269 00:16:41,100 --> 00:16:44,880 This isn't the slow build -up we thought it would be. Jess just kind of fell 270 00:16:44,880 --> 00:16:46,760 into the pool with the deep end, and here we go. 271 00:16:50,280 --> 00:16:54,520 And you can leave the glasses on, too, because they're hot. 272 00:16:56,840 --> 00:16:59,180 Never have I seen a blowjob, lady. 273 00:17:01,800 --> 00:17:08,740 Never have I been to a steampunk party. 274 00:17:19,440 --> 00:17:21,079 I've taken two coughs in my pussy. 275 00:17:21,760 --> 00:17:22,859 The same thing. Wow. 276 00:17:23,119 --> 00:17:24,140 I don't have a vagina. 277 00:17:24,440 --> 00:17:25,900 Never. I know I'm out of that. 278 00:17:26,540 --> 00:17:29,940 Never. So that means you have to be. That means you have to be. Oh. 279 00:17:30,840 --> 00:17:34,640 Her tits are amazing, so I'd like to put them in my mouth. 280 00:17:34,960 --> 00:17:35,960 Oh. 281 00:17:37,240 --> 00:17:38,440 Interesting. We have the same vault. 282 00:17:38,660 --> 00:17:43,600 I thought we were all getting it. 283 00:17:45,380 --> 00:17:47,900 I guess that's pretty much it right here. Yeah. 284 00:17:55,960 --> 00:18:01,000 Pretty much everyone was naked, including me. I like every John, and 285 00:18:01,000 --> 00:18:02,000 mostly dressed. 286 00:18:02,140 --> 00:18:06,060 The other couple kind of started gearing their questions towards him, mostly 287 00:18:06,060 --> 00:18:07,320 with beard questions. 288 00:18:08,180 --> 00:18:12,880 Never have I ever gotten poopy juices in my beard before. Ever. 289 00:18:19,160 --> 00:18:24,000 Never have I had sex after a convention. 290 00:18:27,280 --> 00:18:33,860 I'm excited at this point. This game has really helped 291 00:18:33,860 --> 00:18:37,480 to cut out kind of the middleman of the small talk. 292 00:18:37,720 --> 00:18:40,540 It's just, hey, let's get to know each other and let's get naked. 293 00:18:57,889 --> 00:19:04,730 I feel like I'm off to a good start. I'm only a few 294 00:19:04,730 --> 00:19:09,590 hours into the swing house, and I've already had a girl between my legs. 295 00:19:09,790 --> 00:19:12,790 Me and John are pretty excited to see what's going to happen tonight. 296 00:19:14,070 --> 00:19:15,730 Cleaning's a big, fat vagina part. 297 00:19:16,150 --> 00:19:17,150 That's what it is. 298 00:19:19,870 --> 00:19:24,850 It's like vaginal farting, but it's not odorous or gross. No, it's not odorous. 299 00:19:25,070 --> 00:19:27,890 When they say if you have to sit down and you have a good meal, right, and you 300 00:19:27,890 --> 00:19:30,970 belt or you're burping, it's like, oh, it was a good meal, right? 301 00:19:31,570 --> 00:19:34,970 It's like it's a sign of good stuff. Yeah, so if you had some really great 302 00:19:34,970 --> 00:19:35,970 and they're like, oh, 303 00:19:36,730 --> 00:19:39,990 look, you were awesome, they just let out like a whole bunch of air. That's 304 00:19:39,990 --> 00:19:40,990 freaking awesome, right? 305 00:19:41,910 --> 00:19:44,390 Thanks for the good time. Thanks for the good time. Come again. 306 00:19:51,080 --> 00:19:53,480 Oh, Zinnia, come on. These pants would be totally off for the night. 307 00:19:53,820 --> 00:19:55,100 No, no. 308 00:19:55,440 --> 00:19:56,440 All right. 309 00:19:57,280 --> 00:19:58,600 I'll wear the white dress. 310 00:19:59,020 --> 00:20:04,280 Tonight we decided to ditch the Victorian outfits for more modern, sexy 311 00:20:04,580 --> 00:20:05,580 What about these? 312 00:20:05,820 --> 00:20:08,560 Those would be cute. Okay. What about octopus? 313 00:20:09,140 --> 00:20:10,340 No, no octopus. 314 00:20:10,980 --> 00:20:14,600 We also want to show the residents that there's another side to us instead of 315 00:20:14,600 --> 00:20:15,920 just the nerd activities. 316 00:20:16,480 --> 00:20:17,480 What do you think of the couples? 317 00:20:18,060 --> 00:20:19,960 Zinnia, like... She's really cute. 318 00:20:20,180 --> 00:20:21,180 Yeah. 319 00:20:21,730 --> 00:20:22,730 Very aggressive. 320 00:20:22,950 --> 00:20:28,210 Ladies taking a lead kind of helps ease my nervousness. Yeah, I saw. You kind of 321 00:20:28,210 --> 00:20:29,470 jumped right into that. That was hot. 322 00:20:29,850 --> 00:20:31,530 But no, Letitia was awesome, too. 323 00:20:32,050 --> 00:20:34,610 She's really hot. Well, they're all really pretty. 324 00:20:34,850 --> 00:20:36,970 They're all gorgeous people. 325 00:20:37,250 --> 00:20:43,390 Chad and Letitia and Mick and Andrea are both really fantastic couples, and 326 00:20:43,390 --> 00:20:46,210 we're finding ourselves really attracted to both of them. 327 00:20:46,700 --> 00:20:50,580 I felt completely comfortable, so I kind of just dove on in. Well, you've 328 00:20:50,580 --> 00:20:52,200 definitely had some fun with women so far. 329 00:20:53,260 --> 00:20:55,480 The opportunity presented itself. 330 00:20:56,500 --> 00:20:57,500 Tonight's going to be epic. 331 00:20:57,800 --> 00:20:58,800 Uh, yeah. 332 00:21:02,880 --> 00:21:06,460 Do you see that coming, that full corset? 333 00:21:06,660 --> 00:21:07,660 That was elaborate. 334 00:21:08,670 --> 00:21:09,770 His beard was epic. 335 00:21:10,070 --> 00:21:13,110 Did you see me rubbing his beard? Epic beard. Yeah, I think he liked that. I 336 00:21:13,110 --> 00:21:16,010 think he liked it. I'm sure that's a turn on a little bit. That's the reason 337 00:21:16,010 --> 00:21:17,630 can't have a beard like that. It's too much work. 338 00:21:17,870 --> 00:21:21,790 I think they're going to have a good chance at doing good in lifestyle 339 00:21:21,790 --> 00:21:22,930 they already like to dress up. 340 00:21:23,350 --> 00:21:26,910 Yeah, they were very open minded. They're interested in trying new things. 341 00:21:27,170 --> 00:21:32,830 Yeah, I like that. And I think I would like to play with her a little bit 342 00:21:32,830 --> 00:21:36,730 tonight. Yeah, I think she's open to anything with all you ladies for sure. 343 00:21:39,929 --> 00:21:43,550 Yeah, it was kind of neat to see them come out in their steampunk stuff. I 344 00:21:43,550 --> 00:21:44,550 costumes. 345 00:21:45,370 --> 00:21:46,530 How do you think they'll do this evening? 346 00:21:46,790 --> 00:21:51,850 As far as he goes, and if he wants a girl and a dominant girl, I could be a 347 00:21:51,850 --> 00:21:52,850 dominant girl for her. 348 00:21:52,990 --> 00:21:57,150 Do you think they're ready for what the evening may hold for them? I think 349 00:21:57,150 --> 00:22:02,610 they're shy, but I think they're very easily persuaded to be open, especially 350 00:22:02,610 --> 00:22:03,610 you're attracted to somebody. 351 00:22:03,810 --> 00:22:05,510 I mean, and she's definitely cute. 352 00:22:05,710 --> 00:22:06,710 I think if they... 353 00:22:07,470 --> 00:22:11,970 Keep their communication open and they let their guard down a little bit, 354 00:22:11,990 --> 00:22:12,990 they're going to have a blast. 355 00:22:13,090 --> 00:22:15,690 Yeah, I don't know what tonight's going to bring, but I think it could be fun. 356 00:22:16,710 --> 00:22:20,710 I like the fact that they're actually comfortable with the whole situation. 357 00:22:20,790 --> 00:22:22,250 They're comfortable with the game. 358 00:22:22,630 --> 00:22:25,210 They're down, I'm just not sure 100%. 359 00:22:26,100 --> 00:22:29,340 what they're looking for right now. I'd be willing to have a little fun with 360 00:22:29,340 --> 00:22:30,179 them. You know what I'm saying? 361 00:22:30,180 --> 00:22:33,660 Like, I think they're open. They're willing and ready to have some fun. You 362 00:22:33,660 --> 00:22:36,440 what I'm saying? Yeah. Can't really go wrong there. At the end of the day, I 363 00:22:36,440 --> 00:22:40,720 honestly think that they are cool people. And that's the most important 364 00:22:40,720 --> 00:22:44,480 for me as far as if I'm down to kind of swing with someone or not. 365 00:22:44,700 --> 00:22:45,700 I have a question for you. 366 00:22:45,920 --> 00:22:47,220 Would you have a threesome with them? 367 00:22:47,620 --> 00:22:48,620 That's their thing. 368 00:22:49,040 --> 00:22:50,280 Maybe. Possibly. 369 00:22:50,600 --> 00:22:51,379 I don't know. 370 00:22:51,380 --> 00:22:53,120 All right. We'll see. Just checking. 371 00:22:55,120 --> 00:22:58,820 If it's any indication of what happened earlier, tonight's going to be awesome. 372 00:22:59,380 --> 00:23:00,319 Come in. 373 00:23:00,320 --> 00:23:04,040 Hey. Good evening. You guys look lovely. Thank you. 374 00:23:04,260 --> 00:23:05,260 How was your day? 375 00:23:05,500 --> 00:23:06,500 It was awesome. 376 00:23:06,660 --> 00:23:10,080 Yeah. Awesome. All right, tell me about it. I missed all the fun, as I always 377 00:23:10,080 --> 00:23:14,480 do. Well, we met the new couples, and they're all just really nice, really 378 00:23:14,480 --> 00:23:16,460 welcoming, making us feel comfortable. 379 00:23:17,020 --> 00:23:20,280 How's the flirtation going? Because that's something you wanted to get a bit 380 00:23:20,280 --> 00:23:22,740 more comfortable with. Like, they were kind of, like, trying to show me 381 00:23:22,740 --> 00:23:25,260 pointers, so I think later tonight I'm going to try to... 382 00:23:26,520 --> 00:23:27,199 Test it. 383 00:23:27,200 --> 00:23:29,740 Yeah, and when you got here, you were a little bit nervous. So are you feeling 384 00:23:29,740 --> 00:23:30,579 less nervous? 385 00:23:30,580 --> 00:23:34,660 Yes. You seem a lot more relaxed. You seem like your energy is up. Yeah. 386 00:23:34,660 --> 00:23:36,180 I guess, riding that adrenaline high. 387 00:23:36,400 --> 00:23:38,500 Yeah. Okay, hopefully it can last throughout the evening. 388 00:23:38,740 --> 00:23:39,740 Definitely. Oh, yeah. 389 00:23:39,780 --> 00:23:42,960 Okay, good. Well, there's a cocktail party waiting outside, so when you're 390 00:23:42,960 --> 00:23:46,660 finished and ready to go, I will see you out there, okay? Sounds great. All 391 00:23:46,660 --> 00:23:47,660 right. Thanks. 392 00:23:48,340 --> 00:23:49,299 How's the beer? 393 00:23:49,300 --> 00:23:50,259 Beer's good. 394 00:23:50,260 --> 00:23:51,260 Go enjoy the party. 395 00:23:53,800 --> 00:23:55,120 We're going to talk about fetishes. 396 00:23:55,460 --> 00:24:00,040 No, seriously, what is the most obscure fetish either you've partaken in or 397 00:24:00,040 --> 00:24:01,019 you've observed? 398 00:24:01,020 --> 00:24:02,020 I like flossing. 399 00:24:02,300 --> 00:24:03,300 Flossing is? 400 00:24:03,560 --> 00:24:07,360 It's rolling around in baked goods and pudding. 401 00:24:07,560 --> 00:24:08,780 It's basically messy food. 402 00:24:09,060 --> 00:24:13,480 But pies? And you've never tried it? You need a really big counter for that. Oh, 403 00:24:14,440 --> 00:24:17,540 great. I think we can arrange that. Yeah, I've met these guys. 404 00:24:20,520 --> 00:24:24,520 Wow, John and Jess, I know they have a very exciting and sexy night in store 405 00:24:24,520 --> 00:24:26,600 you, and these guys are pretty excited as well. 406 00:24:27,040 --> 00:24:30,700 So before I go, I just want to officially welcome you to the swing 407 00:24:30,940 --> 00:24:32,180 May tonight count. 408 00:24:32,380 --> 00:24:35,520 So let's raise our glasses to John and Jess and to swing. 409 00:24:37,360 --> 00:24:38,360 Well, 410 00:24:39,500 --> 00:24:44,760 I have a little surprise for all of you tonight. There is a very sexy party bus 411 00:24:44,760 --> 00:24:45,980 waiting outside for you. 412 00:24:48,160 --> 00:24:52,000 And they're going to take you to a mixology bar where you're going to learn 413 00:24:52,000 --> 00:24:54,100 art of making craft cocktails. 414 00:24:54,480 --> 00:24:59,440 So, I know, I don't get to come with you, so I'll send you off. Have a great 415 00:24:59,440 --> 00:25:01,840 time, and I will see you both in the morning. 416 00:25:02,320 --> 00:25:03,400 Have so much fun. 417 00:25:03,740 --> 00:25:04,740 Bye, guys. 418 00:25:05,100 --> 00:25:07,620 You know what they say, alcohol is a social lubricant. 419 00:25:17,580 --> 00:25:21,520 The party bus pulls up to the bar, and we're all just excited to get in there, 420 00:25:21,620 --> 00:25:24,540 learn how to make drinks, and drink some alcohol. 421 00:25:25,500 --> 00:25:27,340 Is everybody ready to make some drinks tonight? 422 00:25:29,900 --> 00:25:32,740 We're going to start off with three simple drinks that will get every party 423 00:25:32,740 --> 00:25:36,540 started. We're going to go ahead and start off with our hurricane. First, 424 00:25:36,540 --> 00:25:38,920 going to put our ice in the glass and make sure it's all the way up. 425 00:25:40,160 --> 00:25:46,380 Two basic alcohols in this drink. There's a white rum and there's a dark 426 00:25:46,960 --> 00:25:48,120 It turns it nasty going. 427 00:25:48,420 --> 00:25:50,200 One little wedge of lime. 428 00:25:50,500 --> 00:25:51,500 Yes, squirt. 429 00:25:52,360 --> 00:25:53,900 Squirt makes it go a long way. 430 00:25:54,920 --> 00:25:56,380 Look at that. It's great. 431 00:26:02,900 --> 00:26:06,580 Everybody's having a great time pouring some alcohol, and I'm really excited to 432 00:26:06,580 --> 00:26:07,580 learn how to make these drinks. 433 00:26:07,660 --> 00:26:10,800 I'm taking a second date drink. You don't want to slap that one on the first 434 00:26:10,800 --> 00:26:12,940 date. We slap anything on the first date. 435 00:26:24,280 --> 00:26:25,720 Now that's a second date drink. 436 00:26:26,160 --> 00:26:31,200 We're hoping this night is a real icebreaker because truth swingers kind 437 00:26:31,200 --> 00:26:34,440 to pull those newbies in, get them comfortable, and break the barrier for 438 00:26:34,500 --> 00:26:35,500 and we're going to get them out. 439 00:26:36,160 --> 00:26:40,120 That is the super sexy lemon drop martini. 440 00:26:40,400 --> 00:26:46,920 I know. In the glasses, not other things around. A bit of a showstopper in the 441 00:26:46,920 --> 00:26:47,920 night. 442 00:26:47,940 --> 00:26:50,260 Small to dry shake. We all like that one. 443 00:26:58,570 --> 00:26:59,570 We like licking glasses. 444 00:27:00,030 --> 00:27:01,150 Take a time around the rim. 445 00:27:01,430 --> 00:27:05,610 You can lick it if you want. Then you're going to have to lick it. You're going 446 00:27:05,610 --> 00:27:06,610 to have to stick it. 447 00:27:06,730 --> 00:27:11,330 Exactly. Thank you, Bo. I love you, Bo. The mood was awesome. Everyone was just 448 00:27:11,330 --> 00:27:12,890 excited, ready to go. 449 00:27:13,310 --> 00:27:15,630 Your lemon drop martini. Right there, guys. 450 00:27:17,990 --> 00:27:20,390 That's the best one. That is the best one yet. 451 00:27:21,970 --> 00:27:25,490 I actually have two shots for some newbies in the crowd. 452 00:27:28,170 --> 00:27:32,530 Me and John have a special drink made for us. It's a buttery nipple. So I say 453 00:27:32,530 --> 00:27:35,230 you guys pick somebody to take your buttery nipples off of. 454 00:27:35,590 --> 00:27:39,690 That can get interesting. 455 00:27:40,550 --> 00:27:42,690 Oh, you're picking me? 456 00:27:43,090 --> 00:27:44,830 I choose Jenny. 457 00:27:45,310 --> 00:27:49,110 Because I'm really feeling her. She's been kind of aggressive, which I kind of 458 00:27:49,110 --> 00:27:51,250 like, but not too aggressive to turn me off. 459 00:27:51,990 --> 00:27:52,990 Hold it. 460 00:27:54,670 --> 00:27:57,170 I'm going to put this in your mouth. 461 00:28:02,569 --> 00:28:06,470 Let me tell you, this girl has an amazing rack to take a shot off of. 462 00:28:06,990 --> 00:28:07,990 John, 463 00:28:08,730 --> 00:28:15,650 who do you want to take your 464 00:28:15,650 --> 00:28:18,150 buttery nipples off of? How about Sparkle? 465 00:28:20,550 --> 00:28:26,230 I pick Sparkle because I've been wanting to get my face as close to those boobs 466 00:28:26,230 --> 00:28:27,230 as I can all night. 467 00:28:27,500 --> 00:28:28,500 I got it. Look. 468 00:28:29,580 --> 00:28:30,120 She 469 00:28:30,120 --> 00:28:41,480 just 470 00:28:41,480 --> 00:28:46,160 leans over and basically pours it into my mouth. I'm just enjoying this 471 00:28:46,160 --> 00:28:47,160 immensely. 472 00:28:49,800 --> 00:28:50,800 Wait, 473 00:28:52,040 --> 00:28:53,220 I feel showed up right now. 474 00:29:08,130 --> 00:29:10,970 It's been a blast so far, and we just want to keep the party going. 475 00:29:11,170 --> 00:29:14,310 I'm getting really excited to see what's going to happen the rest of the night. 476 00:29:17,470 --> 00:29:19,810 You know how you got through college. 477 00:29:25,870 --> 00:29:29,790 We're all starting to loosen up, have some music going on, and we're 478 00:29:29,790 --> 00:29:31,590 seeing them start to come out of their shell at this point. 479 00:29:50,690 --> 00:29:53,010 Whoa, I didn't know John had that in him. 480 00:30:10,780 --> 00:30:14,440 Denny and Sparkle. I really want to play around with them. 481 00:30:15,000 --> 00:30:16,000 Let's go! 482 00:30:27,880 --> 00:30:34,720 Everyone wants to keep the party going. It's 483 00:30:34,720 --> 00:30:37,480 pretty obvious that everybody kind of wants to go down to the Red Room. 484 00:30:38,000 --> 00:30:39,000 I'm ready. 485 00:30:39,040 --> 00:30:40,100 And Jeff is too. 486 00:30:49,080 --> 00:30:55,700 Walking into the Red Room is an altogether different experience. There 487 00:30:55,700 --> 00:30:57,680 mattresses everywhere. There are toys. 488 00:30:58,020 --> 00:31:00,020 It is set up for sex. 489 00:31:00,920 --> 00:31:05,920 He is a wonko. 490 00:31:07,000 --> 00:31:08,940 Wait, do you like the hypoxic? 491 00:31:09,900 --> 00:31:11,380 You're not scared of it, are you? 492 00:31:11,920 --> 00:31:12,920 Aww. 493 00:31:17,780 --> 00:31:21,800 So Jenny and Sparkle pull me down on the mattress and Jenny pulls out the magic 494 00:31:21,800 --> 00:31:22,800 wand. 495 00:31:35,070 --> 00:31:39,850 They're kissing on me, they're touching me, and I'm just enjoying every minute 496 00:31:39,850 --> 00:31:40,850 of it. 497 00:31:45,970 --> 00:31:46,690 Watching 498 00:31:46,690 --> 00:31:58,190 her 499 00:31:58,190 --> 00:32:04,420 face, it is just incredibly hot seeing her transform from Still being a little 500 00:32:04,420 --> 00:32:10,160 bit nervous to kicking back, letting loose, and just enjoying the moment. 501 00:32:40,080 --> 00:32:43,420 This whole experience is really new, but I'm just feeling really good. 502 00:32:44,060 --> 00:32:46,520 They're just making me feel absolutely beautiful. 503 00:32:48,540 --> 00:32:49,540 Did you like it? 504 00:32:50,640 --> 00:32:51,640 Uh -huh. 505 00:33:25,900 --> 00:33:31,300 I look over and I see Jess. So I took the initiative and I asked her if it was 506 00:33:31,300 --> 00:33:32,680 okay if I could go down on her. 507 00:33:52,940 --> 00:33:56,020 With the red room, it seemed like it was just anything goes. 508 00:33:56,220 --> 00:33:59,460 Like, if you're feeling connection with that person, hey, have a little bit of 509 00:33:59,460 --> 00:34:00,460 fun with them. 510 00:34:09,659 --> 00:34:15,739 I'm going down on me, and I feel a hand on my ass. So I look back, and it's 511 00:34:15,739 --> 00:34:19,300 John. And I'm like, okay, feels kind of good, so I go with it. 512 00:34:24,880 --> 00:34:29,219 It didn't really bother me that John didn't check in with me, but in the real 513 00:34:29,219 --> 00:34:34,719 swinging world, just grabbing without asking, that's definitely a no -no. You 514 00:34:34,719 --> 00:34:38,580 have to really communicate with the other couple and make sure everything's 515 00:34:38,580 --> 00:34:39,580 first. 516 00:34:44,580 --> 00:34:49,060 The residents are all aware of each other's roles, and they kind of know a 517 00:34:49,060 --> 00:34:53,199 etiquette. I want the newbies to have the best experience, but I've got to ask 518 00:34:53,199 --> 00:34:54,199 first. 519 00:35:02,060 --> 00:35:08,180 is sucking me off, and I'm fingering Mari, and we're really enjoying the 520 00:35:13,040 --> 00:35:17,320 Once you're in the red room, everyone's touching, kissing, sex is happening left 521 00:35:17,320 --> 00:35:20,560 and right, you gotta know that there's a little bit of etiquette involved. 522 00:35:21,340 --> 00:35:23,700 I don't think Jonna just really knows the rules. 523 00:35:25,580 --> 00:35:28,380 John pans wandering, I felt a little pickle here and there. 524 00:35:31,500 --> 00:35:34,460 As newbies, we're going to make them feel as comfortable as possible, but in 525 00:35:34,460 --> 00:35:37,760 regular swing communities, it may not be taken so nicely. 526 00:35:38,220 --> 00:35:40,480 Always ask. Try to build that connection first. 527 00:35:57,400 --> 00:36:00,240 Me and John decided to take a break. 528 00:36:00,810 --> 00:36:01,810 Check in. 529 00:36:01,830 --> 00:36:04,610 Did you have fun? I'm having fun. I've not done yet. 530 00:36:04,950 --> 00:36:05,769 Me either. 531 00:36:05,770 --> 00:36:09,090 Well, I have succeeded. I've had a threesome with two other girls. 532 00:36:09,550 --> 00:36:11,890 Nice. I think it was more than a threesome. 533 00:36:12,150 --> 00:36:13,410 Do you want to try for a full swap? 534 00:36:13,670 --> 00:36:17,130 Yeah. I mean, if you're okay with it. I'm totally fine with it. Okay. I'm okay 535 00:36:17,130 --> 00:36:20,310 with it. Yeah. Go for it. Shall we head back in? Yeah. Okay. 536 00:36:21,490 --> 00:36:22,448 It's cold. 537 00:36:22,450 --> 00:36:24,910 Yeah. Of course. But I'm not complaining. It's fine. 538 00:36:25,350 --> 00:36:29,470 Dramatic stress. Give me some pizza. 539 00:36:40,770 --> 00:36:44,570 The good thing about coming to the swing house is you've got a lot of 540 00:36:44,570 --> 00:36:48,170 understanding. So we're going to be more forgiving if maybe they make a mistake 541 00:36:48,170 --> 00:36:49,970 or they kind of misinterpret something. 542 00:36:50,250 --> 00:36:53,650 That's kind of why they come here, so we can help them, you know, on their 543 00:36:53,650 --> 00:36:56,770 journey and teach them before they get out into the real world. 544 00:36:58,640 --> 00:36:59,640 This is fun. 545 00:37:00,360 --> 00:37:01,360 Shall we head upstairs? 546 00:37:06,100 --> 00:37:07,500 Morning. Morning. 547 00:37:09,180 --> 00:37:11,380 So is everything about what you were expecting? 548 00:37:11,880 --> 00:37:17,460 Yeah. We couldn't do the full swap, but we had fun. 549 00:37:17,740 --> 00:37:19,600 Nobody was really up for it, it seemed. 550 00:37:19,920 --> 00:37:20,920 No. 551 00:37:21,440 --> 00:37:24,620 Even though the full swap didn't happen, me and John felt fulfilled. 552 00:37:25,190 --> 00:37:27,150 We really came out. We had fun. 553 00:37:27,370 --> 00:37:29,750 We're going to have some great memories to take home. 554 00:37:30,150 --> 00:37:31,670 I think coffee is an order. 555 00:37:32,050 --> 00:37:33,050 Yes, coffee. 556 00:37:33,510 --> 00:37:34,510 Coffee. 557 00:37:35,170 --> 00:37:38,290 You should not have told me that. You should not have told me that. But 558 00:37:38,290 --> 00:37:39,290 definitely etiquette. 559 00:37:39,430 --> 00:37:40,470 You're doing a great job. 560 00:37:41,710 --> 00:37:44,830 You know, one of the things I noticed that was funny is, you know, we get down 561 00:37:44,830 --> 00:37:48,630 to the red room and they didn't seem to check in with each other too much. 562 00:37:49,150 --> 00:37:52,590 You know, which I know a lot of us, we don't need to be on top of each other 563 00:37:52,610 --> 00:37:54,450 you know, follow each other around like puppies. 564 00:37:55,040 --> 00:37:58,100 You know, you still look in, you check in, make sure everybody's cool. Like, 565 00:37:58,100 --> 00:37:59,560 hey, you still alive? You still breathing? 566 00:37:59,780 --> 00:38:02,180 All right, cool. And you can go back to doing what you're doing because you're 567 00:38:02,180 --> 00:38:05,520 there to enjoy your experience. And whatever you do is different. But I felt 568 00:38:05,520 --> 00:38:08,940 like I was talking to her and I had said, hey, look, that's really hot. And 569 00:38:08,940 --> 00:38:10,320 was like, yeah, yeah, give me some more. 570 00:38:10,600 --> 00:38:11,600 I just find it interesting. 571 00:38:11,620 --> 00:38:14,220 I'm wondering if they said, you know, we don't need to look at each other and 572 00:38:14,220 --> 00:38:16,200 make sure you still got a pulse or, you know. Right. 573 00:38:16,400 --> 00:38:20,720 I think at this point they're still so new that just everything is learning. 574 00:38:20,720 --> 00:38:24,760 they're talking about it this morning. It got a little awkward last night. You 575 00:38:24,760 --> 00:38:28,500 know, his little inching, inching closer. Every 30 seconds he was like. 576 00:38:32,340 --> 00:38:37,180 You know, I used that one a long time. 577 00:38:39,190 --> 00:38:44,070 If you did that at at least one of our parties, that's kind of frowned upon. 578 00:38:44,330 --> 00:38:47,150 I mean, we know how to react to it, you know, and kind of move away from the 579 00:38:47,150 --> 00:38:50,170 situation if we need. But we're kind of really big on it. We're not all 580 00:38:50,170 --> 00:38:51,210 automatically comfortable. 581 00:38:51,470 --> 00:38:54,270 And that's why they're here, though, right? Yeah. To fill it out. To figure 582 00:38:54,270 --> 00:38:57,750 out. Yeah, right. And that's why we didn't, like, we're not going to make an 583 00:38:57,750 --> 00:39:00,710 issue of it. Yeah, it's like, we get it. We understand. You're inexperienced. 584 00:39:00,710 --> 00:39:01,710 It's in the can store. 585 00:39:01,990 --> 00:39:02,990 Yeah, exactly. 586 00:39:03,050 --> 00:39:03,848 It's tough. 587 00:39:03,850 --> 00:39:06,350 Eventually, they're going to have to understand that, you know, you've got to 588 00:39:06,350 --> 00:39:07,350 have some kind of connection. 589 00:39:07,820 --> 00:39:10,440 It's like on a playground, you know, you kind of learn how to play in the 590 00:39:10,440 --> 00:39:13,780 sandbox and you find your way. You know, I think they'll learn how to play in 591 00:39:13,780 --> 00:39:16,180 the sandbox and find their way. I think they'll be all right. 592 00:39:16,720 --> 00:39:17,860 Either way, it was a good time. 593 00:39:18,300 --> 00:39:20,120 Either way, it was a good time. Let's play with fun. 594 00:39:21,600 --> 00:39:25,760 Okay, if you would happen to have a rule that you may have overstepped, the best 595 00:39:25,760 --> 00:39:28,340 thing you can do after the fact is talk about it. 596 00:39:28,560 --> 00:39:32,700 Because, I mean, we've had rules that at specific times throughout the process 597 00:39:32,700 --> 00:39:36,160 that tend to get stepped on or blurred a little bit. 598 00:39:36,700 --> 00:39:39,860 And the best thing to do is, like, talk about an afterthought. Don't let it 599 00:39:39,860 --> 00:39:41,220 bottle up. Don't let it build up. 600 00:39:41,480 --> 00:39:45,660 Nobody wants to have hurt feelings, and that's totally not what swinging's 601 00:39:45,660 --> 00:39:47,060 about. And I'm absolutely sorry. 602 00:39:51,160 --> 00:39:52,620 It's so nice out today. 603 00:39:54,080 --> 00:39:56,320 Cheers and coffee. Yay. 604 00:39:57,080 --> 00:39:58,200 Hey, it's 5 o 'clock somewhere. 605 00:39:58,420 --> 00:39:59,420 Good morning. 606 00:39:59,700 --> 00:40:00,700 Morning. 607 00:40:00,970 --> 00:40:03,370 How was your night last night? It was a blast. Awesome. 608 00:40:03,630 --> 00:40:06,630 A blast and awesome. Well, I want to hear all about it, so why don't we sit 609 00:40:06,630 --> 00:40:07,730 and have a little chat? 610 00:40:08,090 --> 00:40:10,070 Sounds great. We'll begin with you, John, if that works. 611 00:40:10,290 --> 00:40:11,290 Sure. 612 00:40:11,890 --> 00:40:16,990 When I left, you were getting on a party bus. So tell me, like, what was the 613 00:40:16,990 --> 00:40:17,990 highlight of last night? 614 00:40:18,070 --> 00:40:21,830 Probably watching Jeff's threesome. That was definitely the highlight of last 615 00:40:21,830 --> 00:40:24,190 night. Okay, and what were you doing during her threesome? 616 00:40:24,450 --> 00:40:26,430 During her threesome, everyone was watching. 617 00:40:26,860 --> 00:40:30,260 Okay. Are you surprised at your reactions last night? Were you expecting 618 00:40:30,260 --> 00:40:31,260 something different? 619 00:40:31,600 --> 00:40:35,700 I was expecting to be a lot more nervous than I was once we got to the Red Room. 620 00:40:35,840 --> 00:40:40,200 Okay. But once I got there, it was just fun and hot. After that, Andrea was 621 00:40:40,200 --> 00:40:45,960 sucking me off, and I was playing with Mari while she was eating Jess out, who 622 00:40:45,960 --> 00:40:50,760 was with another guy at the same time, and everyone was really open and 623 00:40:50,760 --> 00:40:54,200 welcoming. Tell me how they communicated that to you. It was mostly eye contact 624 00:40:54,200 --> 00:40:55,280 and nods. It was... 625 00:40:56,330 --> 00:40:58,730 you know, hey, come here if you want to come. 626 00:40:59,050 --> 00:41:01,910 So it sounds like a lot of nods going on last night. 627 00:41:02,410 --> 00:41:05,650 There's something I want to talk to you about separate from your experience last 628 00:41:05,650 --> 00:41:07,870 night, the way you described it to me, because all the other couples thought 629 00:41:07,870 --> 00:41:12,050 last night there could have been a little bit more permission asking 630 00:41:12,350 --> 00:41:16,330 Is that a fair assessment that you're comfortable doing things, but you're not 631 00:41:16,330 --> 00:41:17,850 always comfortable asking about them? 632 00:41:18,310 --> 00:41:21,730 Right. I think that would be somewhat of a fair assessment. Yeah. 633 00:41:22,210 --> 00:41:24,490 I probably misconstrued some of the... 634 00:41:25,430 --> 00:41:28,730 Okay, okay, fair enough. And I think that's common for everybody. 635 00:41:29,230 --> 00:41:33,130 Most of us are really comfortable having sex, but most of us are not comfortable 636 00:41:33,130 --> 00:41:34,150 talking about sex. 637 00:41:34,430 --> 00:41:38,050 Exactly. So maybe that's something you can work on, too, is your ability to 638 00:41:38,050 --> 00:41:39,950 communicate verbally and say, is this okay? 639 00:41:40,510 --> 00:41:41,510 Absolutely. 640 00:41:41,590 --> 00:41:44,950 All right, well, I think it would be great for me to sit down with Jess as 641 00:41:45,050 --> 00:41:47,650 So if you don't mind grabbing her from me, we'll sit down and have a chat one 642 00:41:47,650 --> 00:41:48,650 -on -one. Absolutely. Okay. 643 00:41:50,490 --> 00:41:51,488 How's it going, Jess? 644 00:41:51,490 --> 00:41:53,730 Good. Yeah, how are you feeling this morning? 645 00:41:54,980 --> 00:41:56,440 Why so glorious? 646 00:41:56,760 --> 00:42:02,100 I really kind of feel like I've opened up and it was just kind of freeing, just 647 00:42:02,100 --> 00:42:06,660 being able to interact with girls and not, I guess, be so shy. 648 00:42:07,260 --> 00:42:08,520 What brought you out of your shop? 649 00:42:08,860 --> 00:42:13,540 After the mixology, more drinks, we were dancing, there was a lot more 650 00:42:13,540 --> 00:42:16,300 flirtation going on. I know me and Sparkle. 651 00:42:17,000 --> 00:42:21,620 and jenny were kissing they really made me feel like the center of attention and 652 00:42:21,620 --> 00:42:24,960 that was just something i've never really experienced so when we went down 653 00:42:24,960 --> 00:42:29,000 the red room she just approached me and was like have you ever you know tried a 654 00:42:29,000 --> 00:42:34,240 toy and i was like well no she's like do you want to and i was like okay i had a 655 00:42:34,240 --> 00:42:40,680 threesome with two other girls and i'm not gonna be shy about it i loved it it 656 00:42:40,680 --> 00:42:45,630 was great Good. I like the example she set in terms of actually asking because 657 00:42:45,630 --> 00:42:49,250 hear a lot in the lifestyle and from couples in and out of the lifestyle, oh, 658 00:42:49,250 --> 00:42:52,250 you just know. And the fact is you don't just know. You have to ask. 659 00:42:52,530 --> 00:42:54,830 Exactly. So did anybody else ask your permission? 660 00:42:55,290 --> 00:42:59,710 Yeah. I mean, just about anyone was like, hey, can I, you know, can I touch 661 00:42:59,810 --> 00:43:03,670 And I'm like, okay, yeah. I mean, I look over and kind of look at John and you 662 00:43:03,670 --> 00:43:07,690 just be like, yeah. He gives a nod. Go for it. Now, the more important side of 663 00:43:07,690 --> 00:43:10,370 this is are you comfortable asking because... 664 00:43:11,819 --> 00:43:13,000 Again, flirtation, initiation. 665 00:43:13,300 --> 00:43:14,800 Was it a concern for both of you coming in? 666 00:43:15,280 --> 00:43:17,200 I think I'm getting more comfortable. 667 00:43:17,480 --> 00:43:21,360 Like I said, I didn't initiate too much, and I kind of feel bad that I kind of 668 00:43:21,360 --> 00:43:25,640 let my sinus get a little the best of me, but that's what we're here for. 669 00:43:25,640 --> 00:43:30,000 here to learn, and I could go back home and go to a lifestyle party and then 670 00:43:30,000 --> 00:43:31,980 try, you know. It's all a learning experience. 671 00:43:32,640 --> 00:43:34,740 Do you have any questions or concerns or thoughts? 672 00:43:35,080 --> 00:43:37,740 No. I'm really happy we've had this experience. 673 00:43:37,980 --> 00:43:42,860 I think it's really helped me, helped my esteem, and I think I'll be able to do 674 00:43:42,860 --> 00:43:45,840 a lot better exploring my own sexuality now. 675 00:43:46,120 --> 00:43:49,400 There are a couple of things I'd like to sit down and talk with you and John 676 00:43:49,400 --> 00:43:52,520 about. So if you wouldn't mind going and getting him. Yeah. We can get together, 677 00:43:52,520 --> 00:43:53,700 the three of us, and have a little chat. 678 00:43:53,900 --> 00:43:55,480 All right. Let me go grab him. Thanks. 679 00:43:57,360 --> 00:44:01,020 Anytime you go through such an intense and exciting experience, it's really 680 00:44:01,020 --> 00:44:05,140 important to debrief, and I'm glad we each got a chance to speak one -on -one. 681 00:44:05,140 --> 00:44:08,320 think it's important that the two of you sit down together as well in a more 682 00:44:08,320 --> 00:44:12,820 formal debrief. And, of course, your debrief is going to last for days and 683 00:44:12,820 --> 00:44:14,360 and months, maybe even longer. 684 00:44:15,080 --> 00:44:17,800 Overall, it was a great experience. I think we were both a little disappointed 685 00:44:17,800 --> 00:44:19,280 we didn't get to try the full swap. 686 00:44:19,950 --> 00:44:21,850 Some people got a little tired last night. 687 00:44:22,210 --> 00:44:23,890 That's understandable. We're all human. 688 00:44:24,490 --> 00:44:28,010 We get a little too riled up at first and kind of crashed. 689 00:44:28,230 --> 00:44:32,290 But we'll take what we learned from here and try it later. 690 00:44:32,530 --> 00:44:33,670 Yeah, exactly. Good. 691 00:44:33,890 --> 00:44:36,950 Now, Jess, you had mentioned that this was a bit of a learning experience for 692 00:44:36,950 --> 00:44:41,410 you. Not only did you learn how to flirt, but you felt a bump in your self 693 00:44:41,410 --> 00:44:43,870 -esteem. You feel a little bit more liberated. 694 00:44:44,430 --> 00:44:46,650 So is there anything that comes to mind for you? 695 00:44:47,400 --> 00:44:50,940 I think I learned that I need to be a bit more assertive and probably more 696 00:44:50,940 --> 00:44:55,320 verbal communication on our part would be better because, again, the nonverbal 697 00:44:55,320 --> 00:44:59,800 can be misconstrued, like you said. Yeah. So I think the lifestyle opens up 698 00:44:59,800 --> 00:45:04,540 opportunity for you to shift from just having sex to really talking about it. I 699 00:45:04,540 --> 00:45:05,540 think so, too. 700 00:45:05,840 --> 00:45:08,540 Is that something you're willing to work on a little bit, just the verbal part 701 00:45:08,540 --> 00:45:11,740 in terms of moving forward if you decide to move forward in the lifestyle? 702 00:45:12,020 --> 00:45:13,019 I think so. 703 00:45:13,020 --> 00:45:17,160 Absolutely. Again, it's easier to do than it is to speak, and that's what 704 00:45:17,160 --> 00:45:21,660 sex exciting and a little bit anxiety -provoking for every one of us. 705 00:45:21,880 --> 00:45:25,340 I wouldn't say that we have so much regret about what we could have done 706 00:45:25,340 --> 00:45:26,520 differently last night. 707 00:45:26,760 --> 00:45:30,160 I think we're coming out stronger and with better communication skills. 708 00:45:30,910 --> 00:45:34,390 So I am certain that you want to see the other couples and spend a little bit 709 00:45:34,390 --> 00:45:35,209 more time. 710 00:45:35,210 --> 00:45:35,948 Yes, definitely. 711 00:45:35,950 --> 00:45:38,830 Yeah, so why don't you head back out there, and I will come and get you when 712 00:45:38,830 --> 00:45:40,010 it's time to go catch your flight. 713 00:45:40,230 --> 00:45:42,110 All right. Okay, thank you. Thank you. 714 00:45:44,890 --> 00:45:46,650 We've never been to a resort before. 715 00:45:46,990 --> 00:45:50,530 They have a theme every single night. That sounds so fun. Yeah, whatever. 716 00:45:50,530 --> 00:45:51,530 all go together. Let's all go. 717 00:45:51,610 --> 00:45:55,030 I don't know. You're drunk enough. You might be surprised. 718 00:45:55,290 --> 00:45:56,069 Hey, guys. 719 00:45:56,070 --> 00:45:57,070 Hey. 720 00:45:58,890 --> 00:45:59,910 How you guys doing? Good. 721 00:46:00,190 --> 00:46:01,190 Have a seat. 722 00:46:02,090 --> 00:46:05,870 So how was your evening last night, guys? We enjoyed ourselves last night. 723 00:46:06,070 --> 00:46:09,190 Did we teach you anything about approaching, like, because you said 724 00:46:09,190 --> 00:46:12,570 that you were... I think you guys really helped me out, and I'm going to take 725 00:46:12,570 --> 00:46:16,650 that knowledge and all that and go back home and... So, wait, are you going to 726 00:46:16,650 --> 00:46:19,190 be more aggressive like me, or are you going to be more passive like... I'm 727 00:46:19,190 --> 00:46:22,830 probably going to be more passive like... Come on, just go by the horn. 728 00:46:23,290 --> 00:46:24,390 What do you guys think you're going to... 729 00:46:24,650 --> 00:46:27,910 do from here as far as progressing, like maybe go start going to parties? 730 00:46:28,170 --> 00:46:31,670 I think so. I definitely think we want to explore it a lot more now. 731 00:46:31,890 --> 00:46:34,510 That's good. I think so, too. Probably join a few websites. 732 00:46:35,010 --> 00:46:38,590 A lot of them. So now are your steampunk outfits going to get a lot steamier? 733 00:46:39,190 --> 00:46:40,370 Probably. Probably. 734 00:46:41,070 --> 00:46:42,070 Hello. 735 00:46:42,150 --> 00:46:43,150 Hi, Jess. How's it going? 736 00:46:43,350 --> 00:46:44,550 You're still having fun, I see. 737 00:46:44,810 --> 00:46:48,170 Yeah. The limo is here to take you to the airport. You've got a plane to 738 00:46:48,250 --> 00:46:51,710 so why don't you all take a minute to say your final goodbyes, and I'll meet 739 00:46:51,710 --> 00:46:52,710 both out front. 740 00:46:52,830 --> 00:46:54,210 Okay. All right. Okay, thank you. 741 00:46:54,520 --> 00:47:00,480 I definitely think I got some good pointers on how to approach girls. 742 00:47:01,120 --> 00:47:05,060 I feel a little shy, but we're going to try to work on that. 743 00:47:05,440 --> 00:47:06,359 Bye, guys. 744 00:47:06,360 --> 00:47:08,100 Bye. Safe travels. 745 00:47:14,220 --> 00:47:17,600 Jess and John, it's been such a pleasure having you here, and I'm glad you had a 746 00:47:17,600 --> 00:47:18,600 great time. 747 00:47:18,660 --> 00:47:22,120 Now, before you go, we have one important piece of business to take care 748 00:47:22,200 --> 00:47:26,160 Okay. I have here the contract you signed upon arrival at the swing house. 749 00:47:26,160 --> 00:47:30,300 was a two -day pass to indulge your sexual fantasies, play with other 750 00:47:30,780 --> 00:47:34,660 And now I need to know what you want me to do with this contract. Do you want to 751 00:47:34,660 --> 00:47:37,980 take it with you into the real world? Do you want to throw it in the shredder? 752 00:47:38,220 --> 00:47:43,120 What I'm asking is, was this just a fling or do you want to swing again? 753 00:47:46,910 --> 00:47:47,970 We want to swing again. 754 00:47:48,190 --> 00:47:50,830 All right. You look pretty certain. You sound pretty certain. So I'm going to 755 00:47:50,830 --> 00:47:51,769 leave this with you. 756 00:47:51,770 --> 00:47:55,230 Thank you so much for visiting us here and have safe travels home. Thank you. 757 00:47:55,390 --> 00:47:56,710 Thanks, guys. Bye -bye. Bye. 758 00:47:57,790 --> 00:48:00,190 Overall, I think this experience has been fantastic. 759 00:48:00,730 --> 00:48:05,150 It's really been a lot of birth for me and John. I feel like I'm leaving the 760 00:48:05,150 --> 00:48:09,710 swing house with a lot more confidence in myself and who I am sexually. 761 00:48:10,550 --> 00:48:13,910 I think the thing I took away from this the most is... Don't be afraid to talk 762 00:48:13,910 --> 00:48:16,330 to people. Just communicate and be open. 763 00:48:16,710 --> 00:48:22,910 I think for us, what's next is really going home and talking to friends who 764 00:48:22,910 --> 00:48:28,470 in the lifestyle and thinking about joining up and maybe playing around with 765 00:48:28,470 --> 00:48:31,550 them. I don't know about you, but I feel like we're closer now. 766 00:48:31,870 --> 00:48:34,930 I think so, too. I think we're going to communicate a little bit even more 767 00:48:34,930 --> 00:48:36,190 openly than we were before. 768 00:48:36,770 --> 00:48:39,570 And on top of that, I mean, you can now play wingman. 769 00:48:40,270 --> 00:48:42,010 This is true. This is true. 770 00:48:42,600 --> 00:48:44,460 We're definitely going to have to go get one of those long, though. 771 00:48:44,680 --> 00:48:48,760 Yeah. That's going to be, like, as soon as we get off the airplane.